Your Opinion Can Get in the Way
When we are coaching, sometimes we think we know what our client should do.
They should leave that horrible husband for sure.
They should quit that dead end job.
They should not go into debt.
They should eat less and exercise more.
How do you know what they should do?
They should do what they do.
They should do what they genuinely want to do.
You job is not to guide them in the world.
Your job is to guide them into themselves so they can guide themelves.
Notice when you have an opinion. Make sure it isn't getting in the way of hearing theirs…