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Ep #201: Wisdom from Ryan Moran

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This week, I actually had a different podcast planned for you all. However, I recently heard Ryan Daniel Moran’s powerful message, and I absolutely had to share with all of you.

In this message, Ryan reminds us to be grateful for what we have and how we can to be happy now instead of focusing on what we currently don’t have.

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What You will discover

  • Ryan Daniel Moran’s message about being grateful for what we have.
  • Why we look for problems instead of being happy now and how to change our perspective in the way that serves us.

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Episode Transcript:

Welcome to The Life Coach School Podcast, where it’s all about real clients, real problems, and real coaching. And now your host, Master Coach Instructor, Brooke Castillo.

Hey friends. Today, I have a very special treat for you. I actually had a different podcast planned for today but I changed my mind after hearing this recording on Russell Brunson's podcast. I listen to Russell Brunson's podcast for business and he had my friend Ryan Moran on his podcast. He had this recording on his podcast, so I emailed Ryan and said, "Hey, can I put it on my podcast? It's amazing."

I was listening to it while I was taking a walk and I ended up in tears listening to it. It is so powerful. I didn't want to add it on to the end of any podcast. I want it to stand alone. So please enjoy this awesome message from Ryan Moran.

When I was a kid all I wanted to be was a millionaire. Now that I am a millionaire, all I want is to be a carefree kid. There was a time in my life where I lost a lot of weight and I had abs for the first time in my life, but I felt too skinny and all I wanted was to add some muscle. Now that I’ve added some muscle, all I think about is how much I miss my abs.

Before I was a father all I wanted was kids. I wouldn’t trade my daughter for anything, but I sometimes miss the days when I was alone. When she was a baby and she was crying in the middle of the night, all I wanted was for her to be older. Now that she’s older we have such a stronger connection, but sometimes I miss the days when she was a baby.

When I was growing a small business, all I thought about was growing a big business. Now that I’m growing a big business, a successful business I sometimes miss the days when it was small and simpler. Growing up in a small town near Cleveland, Ohio all I thought about was getting out. Now that I live in a big booming city, I miss home.

I realized the other day that there are two sides to everything. There are the problems that we feel in the moment, and there are the positives that we think about in the rearview mirror. We feel the problems, and we long for the positives. We rarely, if ever, pause to appreciate the positives while we’re still in them. And instead we just experience them later. And we experience them in the sense of missing the times that used to be.

A friend of mine lost her brother recently and my heart just broke for her because I knew all she thought about, all she wanted was to have her baby brother back. And I knew that she thought that if she had her baby brother back, that she would appreciate him so much more and love him so much harder than she ever had. Now I have a brother and I don’t spend 24 hours a day thinking about how much I love and appreciate my brother, but if anything ever happened to him, all I would think about was having my brother back.

It made me realize that there are things in my life that I overlook that if they were taken away from me, it would be the thing that I longed for the most. The times when my daughter is screaming, if anything ever happened to her, all I would want would be to comfort a screaming baby. If my business went under and I was working for someone else, I would long for the grind of starting something new, spending long hours building something.

If I was going hungry, the extra flab covering up my abs, I would gladly trade my hunger for a little bit of fat, if I had food to eat. The beautiful curse about being human is that we are wired to find problems. That does not make us happy, it actually makes us miserable. But it also makes us grow and create and to solve those problems. We rarely, if ever, pause to appreciate the things that are in our life that we could be grateful for until it is too late.

But you get to control what you focus on. You get to control whether you consciously appreciate things that are in your life, or if you focus on the problems and you wait until later when you feel that sense of longing for how things used to be. No matter who you are, where you are, what you have or don’t have, I can promise you there is someone else looking at your life longing to be in your situation, even in a situation that right now you see as a problem. There is someone who looks at your life and longs to be in that situation, even though once they got it, they would problem long for something else.

No matter who you are or where you are, you have so much to be thankful for and to appreciate. These are the good old days.

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4 Comments

  1. Coincidence? I have had lyrics from Carly Simon’s song Anticipation stuck in my head for a few days “these are the good ole days” – I just listened to this podcast that ends with those exact words “these are the good ole days”

    Guess I better listen up – LOL

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