Hello, my friends. Welcome to a very special week on the podcast. It's the What's Possible Special Series.
This is the first half of a book I wrote a few years ago, and it will include the 10 truths extraordinarily successful women know. I will offer two of these truths per day over the next five days. If you want coaching on these topics, make sure you join me for What's Possible Coach Week starting soon.
You can go to the lifecoachschool.com/possible to find out more. Let's dive in. What's Possible by Brooke Castillo.
A note to my reader. This is a book about extraordinary success. It's a book about making lots of money.
I've had the audacity to use one to define the other, and I'm not apologizing. I want you to know before we get started that you have picked up a book about becoming successful and wealthy. You'll know if this book is for you if you just quietly, under your breath, said, hell yeah.
This is also a business book, because business is how we make money. That business might be your own, or you may work for one, but businesses and success go together. Businesses, even big ones, are what reinvent possibility in our world year after year.
They literally create all the things we need and use. They make the economy work, and they pay us the dollars. Being a woman fully engaged in the economy is the thrill ride of my life, and I want you to jump on with me.
But mostly, this is a book about your brain. Without exception, using it well is the only way you will ever be extra successful and rich. The thoughts that run through it are the most expensive, most valuable, most important things that exist on planet Earth or the universe.
It's about time you started paying much more attention to them, so you can create the exact life you're choosing. When you're done reading this book, you're going to know how to be extraordinarily successful, which means you will know how to do business and be very, very wealthy. I want this for you more than you can possibly know.
I want it for you as much as I have wanted it for myself. As a Master Life Coach, I teach many things. I teach about unconditional love, self-care, relationships, and purpose.
Those are all very important and worthy topics. My exclusion of them in this book is not a reflection of how much they matter. It's simply an indication of my constraint.
This is my book dedicated to success, business, and money. It's one of my favorite topics and something I've truly figured out how to do very well. I can't wait to share every single secret with you.
Introduction, What's Possible. I didn't even know it was possible to make $1 million in one year until Amy Porterfield, an online entrepreneur, announced that she had done it. I remember exactly where I was standing in my white kitchen listening to her podcast staring at my phone.
I froze. $1 million a year. I felt something shift inside me.
She mentioned it, not like she had won the lottery, but like it was normal and doable. I got the sense that she would do it again the next year. She had launched some courses, built her list, and done some affiliate marketing.
There was nothing impossible about anything she was doing. On some level, I guess I knew it was possible to make millions of dollars in one year, but the problem was it had never even occurred to me to do it. It wasn't even in the realm of optional things to think about.
It was like a language I didn't understand, a culture I'd never been exposed to. As soon as I knew it was possible, it became my new goal, my new dream. I started to see everything differently.
My brain changed. I started thinking in seven figures and acting towards seven figures. Two years later, in 2014, I made $1 million in my business.
Since that day, I have not stopped talking about success, possibility, and money. I'm so thankful Amy shared her income out loud to teach me what was possible, and now I'm committed to doing the same. It turns out that what's possible has to start with a single thought.
The possibility has to occur to us. We have to think about it. We have to understand that our mind drives all results we ever create in our lives.
What has never occurred to you that is absolutely possible for your life? In this book, I'm going to show you how much you haven't considered. I'm going to invite you to come out of the well-intended fog you might have grown up in to see it for what it really is.
Your education impossibility has been based on what has happened in the past, when all your possibility is actually in the future. The most basic truth is that extraordinary success is about understanding that what is currently impossible for you now is the possibility for your future. Impossible is temporary.
So many of my students revealed to me that they never thought they could be authors, influencers, millionaires, non-drinkers, naturally thin, unconditionally loving, the list goes on. It's not that they tried to be these things and failed. The tragedy is they didn't even consider trying.
They didn't even have one thought about it. And if we don't think about it, we can't feel it. We can't do it.
And we certainly will never create it. When it finally occurred to me that I could make one million dollars, the possibility, the thought was born. It was now real.
I had never been exposed to this consideration until that one moment in my kitchen. But then it was there. The more I considered it, the more I thought about it, the less impossible it became.
It's not magic. It's how the world actually works. Thoughts ultimately create our results.
I think the revelation was so huge for me in particular was because I had already come up with a self-coaching model. I was already using it every day in my business to manage my mind, coach my clients, and teach my students. I knew in my bones that the model was the way the world actually worked.
I could find no evidence to the contrary. The model teaches that our thoughts create our feelings, and our feelings create our actions, and our actions create our results. I had seen it over and over in my life, and understanding the model had already changed everything for me.
I had used it to lose weight and to stop drinking and develop a much more loving relationship with my mother and myself. I'd watched it work on my students and their weight, relationships, and success as well. I was and still am convinced that everything starts with a thought, and the rest of our lives will flow from our thinking.
So when I heard Amy say that, I realized I had never thought I could make a million dollars in a year. That was the reason I wasn't making it, that simple. In that moment of revelation, I knew exactly what I needed to do.
I had to go through the process of believing something new. I had to change my thinking from where I was to a new way of thinking. I had to follow the self-coaching model, a mind feeling action process that I was already using and teaching.
I had to let go of my current reality and what I knew in order to embrace a new reality based on what I now knew was possible. I committed myself. I made the possibility a proclamation and started thinking it on purpose all day, every day.
I went through all the self-coaching steps to get one million in one year. These are the exact steps that will absolutely work for you as well. If you do the things I teach you in this book, you will achieve extraordinary success.
I can prove it. I have dozens of coaches who have used these tools and the belief that more is possible than we ever thought to achieve success that blows our own damn minds. It is my honor to be able to teach you that process in this book.
Throughout this book, I'm going to invite you into my private discussions with a group of extraordinary women. This group of characters is my mentoring group that I meet with quarterly in windowed conference rooms and beautiful hotels. In these private rooms, we plan to do the impossible in each of our businesses, and then we go do it.
We spend a lot of time belly laughing and crying, but mostly we systematically change what we believe and therefore what we do. I'm excited for you to meet this group of unique, talented and hilarious women. Stacey's story in particular is going to blow your mind.
I'm going to start in part one with teaching you what you must know, what all extraordinary successful women know. These are belief systems you need to adopt and use to replace whatever is currently keeping you stuck. I will tell you what they are and then go into detail why they are true and why you must believe them deeply and seriously.
I will warn you, you might be resistant to some of these beliefs at first. They aren't easy to accept and believe. If they were, everyone would already have extraordinary success.
But in order to step out of the crowd of universal belief that produces ordinary success, you're going to have to stretch yourself. In part two, I'm going to take you through the tools and steps of how to go from where you are now to extraordinary success. These are the tools and the practices that you will need to do over and over to change your brain, change the way you feel, act, and ultimately change the results you are creating.
These tools are simple, not complicated, but difficult to apply. Anything new and unfamiliar is going to be rejected by your brain at first. So I'm going to ask you to stay with me and consider this material as the most valuable thing you can possibly learn even though it might be difficult.
You must go through the process of letting go of everything you already know and do in exchange to do something completely new and foreign. But don't worry, I've got you. I've been through this thousands of times with my students.
It's a predictable process that starts with an aha moment that feels more like remembering something you've always known than learning something new. Then, as you recognize you might have been wrong about a lot of things, you will go through what we call the river of misery. It's not enjoyable, but it's a necessary part of the process.
It's a true identity crisis as you let go of one belief structure and accept a new one that will produce more successes than you ever thought possible. I'll hold your hand and show you the pitfalls and lead the way if you start veering off track. I'll remind you what to think and what to do when you forget, and I will keep believing in you and your dreams even when you want to forget and quit.
I will remind you of what is possible and how important it is. In part three, I will give you some inspiration. I will share the stories of some of my most successful students who followed this exact process to achieve the impossible.
These stories will blow your mind, but they will also show you how possible it is to do it yourself. What I love most about these stories is that the women are all so different. They all come from different backgrounds, experience, and education.
None of that matters. The only thing that matters is that I did the thought work I teach to overcome anything that got in the way of creating the success they now know is possible. But before we get started, I want to give you a brief introduction to me, as I will be your guide through this process.
I love it when people ask me what I do at a cocktail party. When I answer, I'm a life coach. They do the equivalent of telling me I'm adorable.
Half smile, twinkle of pity, and then they say, oh nice, what does your husband do? They have no idea that being a successful life coach is one of the most profitable careers on the planet today. I have been a life coach for 14 years.
I started as a weight coach doing one-to-one coaching, and now I run the best life coaching school in the world. I don't say that lightly. I think we literally have the best tools, the best teachers, and the best program for the price of any single other opportunity out there.
I have reached a mastery level with my coaching from coaching thousands of hours with thousands of people. I have also spent a significant part of my working life thinking about how to make self-help and coaching tools better and more usable. I have used them in my own life to make it so much better than it used to be, and thousands of my die-hard student fans have followed suit.
They are showing up in ways they've never have and feeling better than they ever believed possible. I have been at this a long time, but I'm just getting started. In 2014, when I made $1 million in one year, I realized that I'd been putting way too many limitations on what I thought was possible for success.
Since that time, I've gone through the process I will teach you in this book to increase my income every year. I went from 1 million to 2 million to 5 million to 17 million to 25 million, and this year we'll do 35 million. My current goal is to get to 100 million within the next eight years.
I promise you, I'm not a special unicorn. I'm not different from you. I'm not more capable or smarter or have more advanced degrees.
I've simply reprogrammed my brain into a new reality of what is possible in my lifetime. I will prove it by introducing all of my students who are all very different from me except for the process we follow and the extraordinary success we all have. I can't wait for you to meet them, but more importantly, I can't wait for you to join them.
It is possible, my friend. Let's begin.
Part 1, what extraordinarily successful women know. It's not what you know about your past that creates success. It's what you know about your future.
One, we know we have to teach ourselves what is possible. What is possible for your life? How do you know?
My guess is that you don't. Not because you aren't intelligent or capable, but just because none of us are taught to think about life in a way that increases possibility. Our education system is completely based on what has already happened, been created, or already exists.
When we sit down with a counselor to discuss our future, they ask us what we have already done, what we are good at, and then they show us a list of possible options based on what is already in the world being done. You can become a doctor or a lawyer. You can be a writer or an engineer.
Here's what these jobs pay. Here is what's possible for your income. We listen to the authority figures tell us what is true.
We take notes and we go home and make decisions based on a very limited idea of life. Go to college or not. Accept the job or not.
Go back to school to make more money or not. But what if that meeting were different? What if when you went into the small room on campus to talk about possibility, the career counselor asked you first about money?
How much money would you like to make? And what if you could answer with any number that delighted you? What if you didn't limit yourself to current salaries or current possibilities?
What if that counselor told you that it was possible to make one million dollars a year? And you could say, oh yes, that sounds wonderful. I choose that.
What if instead of knowing your vocation, you knew your number, the amount of money you wanted to have yearly to live the life of your dreams? Immediately, you would have to give up the idea that a job was something that was given to you by someone else for the amount they think you should earn. And instead, you would be thinking in terms of value you would need to create in order to collect your yearly number.
What can I do to make $1 million a year? Unfortunately, this is a question most of us will never ask ourselves. It won't be an option.
Our brains are too filled with questions about getting into college and getting jobs and creating a perfect resume. But all of that is contrived and made up by people who went before us. It's how our current society has gotten here, but it's not how it will grow into where it can be.
I asked one of my most successful students what she was told as a young woman about what was possible. Her name is Corinne. Picture short blonde hair, beautiful blue eyes, and the best kind of southern accent and hilarious commentary.
More on that later. No college degree. Current revenue, 5 million.
Husband just retired from his 10-year engineering high-paid management job to work with her. Here's what she says about the message she got growing up. My mom told me thousands of times that she didn't want me to end up like her, which was no degree and barely getting by.
College would be the answer to it all. The normal path for me was just not to have to be broke and to do something that afforded me to pay my bills without worry. That was about it.
I was never taught that I could dream big, expect big, or be big in life. It wasn't an option until I started learning from you. When I read this, I try not to get upset, but it makes me sad for that little girl.
I imagine going back in time when she was in first grade and sharing with her all the possibilities that are available in her life. I want her to know that the opportunity she had should be considered very deeply because it was very hard won. Her opportunity to be whoever she wants and to make as much money as she wants is not an opportunity that has been given so easily to women who became before us.
I want everyone to know this. I want you to know it. I want you to know that the opportunity you have laid out before you is limitless.
You don't have to ask permission or follow a path that requires you to compromise. You can simply skip that part and start doing exactly what you dream of doing. I didn't have that chance with my students when they were in grade school, but I had it when they were adults.
When they came to my school, I insisted they consider themselves, their thoughts, and their lives in a completely different way. I often raised my voice with them to drown out the messages that they can't do it or that they don't know how or that they don't have the right. I insisted that they did.
Unfortunately, many of my students have courageously believed me. They decided to test out the theory, and in doing so, they have blown their own damn minds. They have created extraordinary success, success that defies the rules and expectations of most women today.
But imagine if they had gotten started earlier. Imagine if when girls were little, we told them this. Be an example of something new and different and extraordinary.
Make as much money as you want. Be amazing mothers or not. Work for yourself or work for a company that recognizes your greatness.
What if we told them we didn't know the pasts available to them or what they were good at, but they did and they could find out all of their answers by taking action and failing? What if we told them that failing was not bad, but part of the process and part of ultimately succeeding? What if we told them they could dream of having houses on the beach and flying private planes and donating millions of dollars to charity?
What if we gave them bigger what ifs? I often imagine talking to one of my students, Rachel, who has come to me and become a coach and a master coach and is now currently in my millionaire mastermind. She feels so strongly about sexism and being a feminist.
I want to tell her that being a feminist is about what you do with your life and not what you say about men. I want to encourage her to make this life her statement about everything that isn't right in the world. I want to encourage her to earn more and hire women and land on the cover of Forbes.
I want her to imagine the interview she will have with the editor and what she will be able to say about women and opportunity and equality just by describing what she's done and what she's created. What if we told little girls this? Earn lots of money and be rich.
Being rich is awesome. It's virtuous, responsible, noble, and an important goal. Being rich makes it easy to say no to a boss who won't pay you well, to a husband who isn't kind to you, to a problem you don't have time to deal with and money will solve.
It's fun to have your own money and to spend it on whatever you want. It makes it easier to help people pay for good help and eat healthy food. It's not normal to earn less than you want, less than you're capable of earning.
It's normal to be wealthy and free. It's an honor to use your opportunities fought hard for you by those who came before. The ability to make money, as much of it as you want, the freedom to spend it on whatever you want, and the opportunity to fail is a gift, not a burden, not something to be ashamed of, but something to be excited about.
The last thing our foremothers would ever want is for us to play it safe. What if we told those little girls, you don't have to get married or have children if you don't want, you don't have to go to college to be successful, grades and test scores don't determine who you are, you can create a business or a product or a job and do whatever you want making as much money as you can imagine. The truth is, money does grow on trees, and they just keep making more of it.
So you either claim it or you don't. You can be a good and moral and smart and loving and very, very rich woman. The chances of you selling yourself out for money is much higher when you don't have any.
Money gives you the freedom to make choices that align with who you most want to be. I recognize that my students come to me with very limited beliefs about themselves and possibility. I will most likely be the first person in their lives who tells them they can double or triple their income.
I might be the first person who has ever believed they can grow their company into something big enough to not only support their family and retire their husband, but something that could literally change the world. I often hear myself repeating, you can and should think even bigger. I once offered one of my employees a bonus for some excellent work she had done.
When I told her the amount I was going to pay her, she just stared at me. Her eyes were darting back and forth. Her mouth was hanging slightly open.
I asked her if she was okay, and she told me that she didn't know. She didn't know it was possible for her to make this much money. Oh dear, it is possible.
And let me apologize on behalf of all adults that we didn't tell you sooner. The world might try to pull you into some version of realistic thinking so you don't get your hopes up and you remember what really matters. Don't fall for any of this.
You have to know that you are the creator of your life and your own possibility. You don't have to ask anyone for permission to be more successful. It's allowed.
I've already asked everyone who's in charge, the imaginary adults running the world, and they said, yep, this life is yours for the taking. See what you can do with it. For the sake of this book, I want you to start with success and money.
I will explain more in the following sections as to why, but it's a great place to start playing with what's possible for your life. It's a great way to question what you've always been told and always believed and get the practice of changing something so ingrained to create new possibilities of growth, earning and having in your life. The gift of knowing that all possibility exists in the future is that there isn't any limitation on it.
No one can point to evidence in the future that something is impossible. Our minds get to decide and work towards what has been created with our imagination. And isn't it true that all the things that were impossible with no evidence before became possible by someone doing them?
Yes, that's how it works. It's how it's always worked in the world, and it's exactly how it will work in your life. What's possible, you get to decide.
Two, we know the difference between success, happiness, and being a good person. Money and not money or. Often, when I get warmed up and start talking about money and making tons of it, people will start wagging their finger at me.
They will tell me I have my priorities messed up, and I should focus on more important things like love and being a good person. It's as if they believe success, happiness, and being a good person are all different possible answers to the multiple choice question of how to live a good life. I always have to remind them that there's a correct answer, which is D, all of the above.
It's not success or family. It's not money or being a good person. It's money and.
We can have all the things. They do not detract or affect each other. They are completely different topics that need to be addressed separately.
I'm going to do that for you here. I'm going to define them and show you how much they differ and are mutually exclusive. Let's start with how we define success.
Defining success is challenging, so I will save you the research and give you a working definition to use for the sake of this book. We're going to define success as creating the amount of money you want and are capable of creating. Yes, forgive me.
We are going to use money as the measure of success. This is not a bad thing. This does not mean that money is everything, or you can't call yourself successful if you don't have money.
You can do whatever you want. But for the sake of this work, success and money are going to be very much intertwined. We are going to combine and alter two definitions of success.
Number one, attainment of popularity or profit. Number two, a person or thing that achieves desired aims or attains prosperity. For the sake of this book, we aren't going to count popularity as success.
I don't find it useful or even accurate. I believe you can be very popular and not successful. But I do think you can achieve profit and prosperity and define that as success.
Success isn't a good effort. It's not showing up. It's not even doing your best.
Success is about the win and it requires a scoreboard. And for the sake of success, in this context, the scoreboard is going to be the money you want to earn and do. I don't want to leave this up for discussion because I think it's a waste of time.
What is your desired aim for money? When you hit it, that is success. It's important we keep it simple and clean and talk about it in terms of money.
This might make you uncomfortable or even mad. And because of this, I have a whole chapter about it. But for now, we need to be clear and clean on success.
Creating the money, amount of money you want, and are capable of creating. Set your aim, and when you achieve it, you can consider yourself successful. It really is okay to use money as a measurement of success.
Not all of us want success, as I will discuss in a minute. But if we do, we need a way to measure it. Money is how we do it.
The actual numbers set out loud, committed to, and then counted. This is without apology or confusion. If you want 100K and you make 100K, you've succeeded.
That is success. Now, of course, you can also be successful at other things in your life. You can be successful at playing a sport.
You can be successful at raising a family. You can be successful as someone who contributes to their community. I absolutely understand that.
But this is a business book, and we're talking about possibility in your career and in your business, and we're going to measure that with money. Extraordinary success is blowing your own damn mind. It's about making more money than you ever thought possible.
It's not about being happy all the time or working yourself to burn out. It's not about getting anyone's approval but your own. Success is about knowing what you are capable of and then betting on yourself to make a go of it.
Success is when you know in your heart you are winning. In this book, we're going to talk about success in business. Yes, it can be applied to other areas in life, but for the sake of this book, we're going to talk about the work you do and the money you make.
And to make things more interesting, we're going to talk about extraordinary success, not the kind you get from just applying what you learned in school. I don't think success is playing it safe by doing what comes easy or doing what your mom wanted you to do, even if you make a lot of money by normal standards. I think success is about the exact opposite of that.
It's about forgetting what the rest of everyone thinks and winning in the biggest way you want to and you know how. Success to me is being an example of what is possible. It's about someday making a hundred million dollars in one year, working three days a week.
It's about selling as much as I want to sell. It's about changing the conversation in my client's head about what they think they're capable of doing. And no, money isn't everything, but it sure is something.
I want to apologize for the connection I make between money and success. It's an awesome scorekeeper for my belief about what is possible. It's a direct reflection of the value I make, and I sure do make a lot of it.
So can you. What success isn't? Success is not happiness or sadness, and it's also not goodness or badness.
It's not being happy all the time. It's not arriving at some place where money and goal accomplishment solves everything. It doesn't make you better or more worthy or more important.
In fact, success is just making a certain amount of money you set out to make, blowing your own damn mind, and then realizing life is still good some of the time and bad some of the time. That is it. Killing yourself for success is silly.
How you feel on the way to success is often how you will feel when you arrive there. It's not better there than here. In fact, it can be a lot less comfortable with all that attention.
On the way to success, you can explain away your pain as a by-product of life until you arrive. But once you arrive, you'll get the alarming truth that life will always feel negative half of the time. So it doesn't take away the pain, doubt, insecurity, or fear.
For many people, it exasperates it. But it shows you, if you're paying attention, that you can handle it. And that's what makes it worth it.
If life in general and your life specifically is always going to be full of negative emotions, you might as well get some success along the way. People won't respect you more or approve of you more. People won't love you more.
You won't be more worthy than when you started, and the money won't make you any happier for long. But that doesn't mean we should vilify success and not go after it with everything we have. In fact, I think knowing that we have nothing too important to gain or lose is what makes the journey toward what we most want a very good endeavor to consider.
It's not as easy as you think, but it's also not easy to stay the same. So the reason to do it is just for some diversity of experience, emotion, and results. That is reason enough.
Win or lose, you will have stretched what it means for you to have the human experience. Happiness. Success cannot make you happy.
In fact, success and happiness have nothing to do with one another. One is the amount of money you make, the other is an emotion you have. Success has often gotten a bad rap because people try to do it for happiness.
They have somehow gotten the message that if they could make more money and be more successful, they would be happy. This is a lie. It has always been a lie and always will be.
Happiness is caused by your thinking. You can be happy and successful, or you can be miserable and successful. We all know this is true.
We know people who have earned lots of money and are not happy, and we know lots of people who are successful and happy. The most important thing to differentiate here is causation and correlation. Happiness is not caused by success.
Happiness can only be caused by your thinking. Period. So when people say, I don't want to be successful, I would rather be happy, it doesn't make any sense.
It's like saying, I don't want to be strong. I'd rather be smart. They don't have to be dependent or mutually exclusive.
In chapter three, I will talk much more about emotions and what causes them and how to create them. I will also talk about how we've been taught to believe that happiness should be an end goal for our lives that somehow we can pursue it enough to achieve it. This causes more unnecessary suffering than almost any other thing I see in my clients.
When you learn about the concept of 50-50, you will understand that happiness is an emotion that comes and goes, and you would never want to be happy all of the time. It's not even a worthy goal. Success is success.
It's earning how much money you want to earn in your job or business. Happiness is happiness. It's an emotion caused by what you're choosing to think, and it's an emotion that is ideal in life about half of the time.
Don't put success and happiness in a causation relationship. They have very little to do with each other. And what this means is you don't have to wait to be successful, to feel happy, and you certainly don't have to give up on success in order to have happiness.
You can and should understand and work towards both of them in a conscious and purposeful way. Being a good person. Most of us want to be good people.
Being a good person matters to us. And yet most of us don't define what it means to be a good person. In fact, I'm going to offer that many of my clients think being a good person means not being successful.
Huh? Can you be rich and successful and be a good person? No, really.
I mean, really, really rich. I mean having more money than you can ever spend rich. Does money stop you from being a good person?
That question might sound strange, but it's similar to the idea about happiness. Many people believe that the pursuit of success makes them bad somehow. It's as if money is evil and bad and wrong and working towards creating more than you need will take away your morality and your character.
What does it mean to be a good person, a moral person? This is something you really need to think through and decide. I highly recommend you come up with three rules or values or moral judgments about what good people are and how they act.
Make sure you are clear that good is a value judgment and therefore subjective. There's no definitive law on what it means to be good. For me, being a good person means that I make a contribution to the world and leave it better than I found it.
It means I follow the laws of my country and state and tell the truth. And finally, it means that I have a tremendous compassion for the humans despite their shortcomings. But what does it mean to you?
What is your definition of a good person? And do you see yourself as one? When you think about happiness and success, can you see that those are different and separate topics that don't need to all relate to being good?
Being a good person, being extraordinarily successful with lots of wealth, and being happy a good portion of the time, all of the above are available independent of each other. The choice I have made is to be all of the above. I choose to be extraordinarily successful, which means I make a lot and have a lot of money.
I choose to be as happy as possible for a human, which isn't all the time, more on that later. And I choose to be a very good person. That's possible, and don't let anyone tell you that it isn't.
The more money I make, the more I'm able to be a good person if I choose to. As opposed to making me a greedy, selfish money stealer, it allows me to be generous and kind and more helpful than I was ever able to do without money. I can hire people and pay them more than I've ever been paid in their life.
I can buy my friend a car who can't afford a new one. I can pay for my parents to take a vacation. I can donate large amounts of money to my favorite charity.
But it doesn't make me a better person. Being a good person doesn't have anything to do with how much money I do or don't have. I can be a good person with or without money.
Making more money will never change that. It absolutely can't. I can be a good mogul.
I like the sound of that. Why don't we celebrate more women moguls making all the money that they've ever dreamed possible? We should.
And once we know this, once we know that making lots of money doesn't take away our good morality card, we are free to go after it with our hearts on fire. Success can't solve a happiness problem. Lack of success and money won't make you a more moral person.
Extraordinary success won't make you a bad person. Separate topics handle them separately. More success is created by creating more value.
Happiness is created by managing your mind. And being good is created by how you choose to define yourself. If you've enjoyed listening to the What's Possible Series, you must join me for our What's Possible Coach Week, where I will be coaching you live on all of these topics, on what's possible for you, and introducing you to the possibility formula, which is the second half of the book that I wrote that teaches you how to execute these truths in your life.
You can come to thelifecoachschool.com/possible in order to join us live. We'll see you then.
